Survivors: How to really get your life back in Bristol



Learn how somebody just like you made a full recovery, disproved all the bleak prognoses that professionals gave, AND created a life beyond all expectations - and how YOU can, too! Free first consultation in person (Bristol only) or online from the comfort of your own home, wherever you live.

You guessed it - that person I alluded to is me. I've had many extremely traumatic experiences (literally everything people can do to each other, for nearly two decades), and developed a whole bunch of chronic health problems, notably fibromyalgia (chronic pain and debilitating fatigue) and PTSD with severe social anxiety, panic attacks and recurring depression.

Does any of this sound like you?

Then chances are, the prognoses you get from professionals engaged in your care (if you get any help at all) are as discouraging as mine were:

According to the people who were supposed to help me, I should

... live with chronic pain
... keep popping antidepressants
... need therapy for 20 to 30 more years (!)
... and be on sick benefits or work miserable, low-paid jobs
for the rest of my life.

And how about you?

Doesn't that feel unfair? Aren't you sick and humiliated from

... being pushed around in the system,
... always having to fight for your rights,
... being forced back into work even though you're not ready yet,
... having to justify your situation despite none of it being your fault,
... being ignored, blamed, attacked or laughed at,
... not getting the chance to contribute and participate in your community as you would like to,
... being limited in your career choices,
... facing outright discrimination (that being illegal doesn't mean it doesn't happen, right?),
... not being seen as a person in your own right, but only as a patient, petitioner, case or number,
... feeling like a burden to friends and family, or actually being abandoned by them,
... and rarely getting the support you really need?

That's what's called structural violence or secondary victimization, and they are real.
So perhaps you even feel you may have been strong enough to recover from the original trauma, but what you cannot take are those long-term effects and the view that there is something wrong with YOU, that you are weak, sick, "less than", and that you have no right to expect more from life. And yet, there is this creeping feeling that all of this might just be the case.

I hear you. In fact, through my personal story and through working both as a volunteer and with my own clients, I know only too well how often we doubt if we can ever get back on our feet again, and how it looks like life has let us down, like everything and everyone is conspiring against us.

But there is hope! I myself would not have thought this possible a few years back, but here I am, happy as a clam, with a wonderful husband, loving family and friends to enjoy life with, and even running my own business so I am independent and can give back in a meaningful way. And, I can help YOU.

What is your dream? What would you have done with your life if tragedy hadn't struck?

You can still do it! You can be free. You can have an independent, meaningful, joyful life. And you can make a real difference for others.

It's my labour of love to help people like you. And here's the good news:
Contrary to common belief (and to what most experts tell you), it doesn't have to be a lengthy, painful process with mediocre results at best. You don't have to settle for less.
But it's important to get the right information along with the personal support you need, and that's not easy to come by.

You know, I have studied psychology (minor only, though),
... had therapy (on and off for 9 years),
... read the textbooks and all the self-help stuff in the world alike,
... gone through several coach trainings,
... tried and tested any methods imaginable on myself and with my clients...
... so I know the field inside and out, I can tell what works and what doesn't.

And here's what I've found:
All the common approaches do work. It is possible to get decent results. However, it takes time (25 years in my case), and it can also cost you a lot (I've spent thousands upon thousands on my healing journey, scrimping and saving, and equally large amounts for the education and trainings I needed to eventually help others just like me).

In the bottom line, what you really gain from those traditional methods and treatments rarely justifies all the effort. You may "function" again, and be able to keep up the semblance of a "normal" life, but still be far away from happy, still feel there's something big missing.

What if there was an easier way?

What if you didn't have to spend your life facing crisis after crisis in all areas, suffering forever from that one thing that went wrong and that wasn't even your fault?

What if you could get straight to the root cause, rather than just dealing with the symptoms?

Wouldn't you like to live life on your own terms, doing what you love to do rather than what you're told to, or feel you have to?

This - and more - is possible for you! There is a fool-proof and surprisingly simple way that will get you the fast, profound and lasting results you're craving.

Once I had uncovered this secret and started to live by this new understanding, my life completely transformed in just a few months: From utter despair, anxiety and struggle (emotionally, financially, and in about every other area) to a creative, productive, independent and joyful life.

It doesn't mean I never experience challenges or setbacks anymore. That's life.
But if it happens, I am now able to bounce back much quicker, find solutions that not only fix the trouble, but often reveal new and better opportunities, and I never lose my peace of mind for longer than a few hours before fresh insight comes through that helps me move on.

And all that without having to spend hours and hours on meditation, vision boards, energy work, hypnosis, journaling, mindfulness and what not. I still use a lot of those myself and with my clients, but no techniques are required to achieve a true and lasting transformation.

Because, as useful, relaxing and beneficial as these exercises are - who has the time? Especially when you have an emergency that calls for a solution right now!

With my approach, it is not even necessary for you to bare your soul and recount all the painful details. You can say as much or as little as you like, and whatever you share, I will hear and honour your story, human to human, without pathologizing.

So, do you want more than just survive? Do you want to have a real life, with less crises and more possibilities? Then we should have a chat.

The first appointment is free of charge and can already give you great relief and the knowing that your life WILL change for the better. If you then choose to keep working with me, I offer sliding scale fees depending on your circumstances. Online and in-person appointments available, with 100% confidentiality guaranteed.

Just message me, or book yourself in via the link provided.

By the way, as wonderful as my life now is, and as much as I love my work, still my day has only 24 hours, and there's simply not enough time to provide for everybody. So it's first come, first served.

Here's to your courage of taking the next step - you can do it!

I'm looking forward to helping you create the life you really want and deserve.

Kathy Eliwa,

Founder/Creator at Persoula

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